@Howey I became aware of the thrust pad issues with VAG engines years ago through other VAG brand forums. Spent some time researching it and it was generally considered a design weakness. As a credibility check I just now have taken a look at a crank exploded view of an AFN engine, the mighty forerunner of PD engines; it does indeed have a 360 degree thrust pad. Probably a cost saving change on the new engine to reduce the thrust pad to 180 degrees and the reason thrust pads on PD engines have been considered a design weakness. No reports on here so I never expected it to happen to me.
Aftermarket clutches were suggested as a risk contributing to thrust pad failure. The argument went that some brands do not manufacture to OEM standards and the spring weight can be a little heavy putting more load on the thrust pad. I've experienced this with a classic Mini and had to swap the clutch out. When I paid a local garage to fit a clutch to an Audi A4 they fit three before they were happy with the pedal weight and gave me the car back. Probably best to play it safe and buy from an OEM supplier.
I've lost three clutches over the years to main crank seal failures. Two were traditional rubber seals but the third seal on my A2 is PTFE. I've never before had one of those fail, two have lasted over 200k miles. So yes I'm putting the MCS failure and resulting clutch contamination down to thrust pad failure and excessive end float of the crank.
As you say thrust pad failure can go undetected, it did in my case. I also think it a rare failure but it is probably worth checking end float if you are changing a clutch. Catch it in time and the pads can be replaced with the engine in the car by removing the sump and balance shaft frame.
Edit, an endfloat check would have shown nothing untoward in my engine. The pad was wedged between the bearing cap and crank taking out the end float. I would have replaced the seal and clutch only for it all to fail again. For the ten minutes it takes the endfloat check I think is worth the effort, you may find the problem before the pad wears sufficiently to move or detect one that has fallen out.